Now accepting new clients for weekly individual therapy in Carlsbad, CA
Now accepting new clients for weekly individual therapy in Carlsbad, CA
Dr. Michael Elkin, Ph.D
Maybe you’ve had something tough happen—whether recently or long ago—and no matter how much you talk about it, part of you still feels stuck. Maybe certain memories, feelings, or even body sensations keep popping up, uninvited, no matter how hard you try to shove them down.
That’s where EMDR therapy (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) comes in. And no, despite the long name, it’s not as complicated as it sounds. In fact, it’s designed to help your brain do exactly what it already knows how to do: heal.
EMDR is a structured, research-backed therapy that helps your brain process painful or overwhelming experiences, so they no longer hold the same emotional charge. Instead of simply talking through events, EMDR uses something called bilateral stimulation—moving back-and-forth stimuli (I use a light bar or headphones with alternating sounds)—to help both sides of your brain communicate and process old material.
Think of it like cleaning out an overloaded filing cabinet. The memory or feeling that’s been jamming up the drawer finally gets sorted and put in its proper place.
Your brain’s natural processing system can get overwhelmed—especially during stressful or traumatic moments. EMDR taps into deeper parts of your brain (like the amygdala and hippocampus) and helps “unstick” those memories or emotions, moving them from the emotional centers to your logical, thinking brain.
What’s cool is that EMDR works much like what happens during REM sleep, when your brain sorts and organizes memories. But instead of hoping your dreams sort it out, we’re intentionally guiding the process while you’re fully awake and in control.
Before opening my private practice, I worked as a dedicated trauma therapist at a residential trauma treatment center, specializing in EMDR. I've guided many clients through all phases of EMDR therapy—whether addressing a single event, ongoing stress, or complex trauma—and I’ll be right there to support you every step of the way.
And because I’m trained in both EMDR and Brainspotting (BSP), if at any point it feels like Brainspotting might be a better fit for your goals, we can switch approaches seamlessly—no need to start over or jump through hoops.
EMDR follows an 8-phase structure (don’t worry, you don’t have to memorize them—I’ve got it covered).
The first few sessions are all about:
Once we’ve laid that foundation, you’ll be ready for Phase 4: Desensitization, where we introduce bilateral stimulation and your brain starts reprocessing what’s been stuck.
That’s one of the most common questions I hear—and the honest answer is: it depends. Some clients experience relief after just a few EMDR sessions, while others with more complex histories may benefit from longer-term work.
The beauty of EMDR is that it’s efficient and focused. You don’t have to spend years rehashing your story. Many people continue noticing positive shifts between sessions and even after completing therapy.
EMDR is especially effective for:
If you’re ready to move past what’s been holding you back—and want an approach that’s structured, supportive, and efficient—EMDR might be the right fit.
I offer both 50-minute and extended 100-minute EMDR sessions, so you can choose what works best for your schedule and goals. (And if we find Brainspotting might serve you better? No problem—we can pivot easily.)
Curious about how EMDR can help you?
Contact me today to schedule your complimentary 15-minute consultation via my contact form.
🧐 Discovered by Accident – EMDR was discovered in 1987 by psychologist Dr. Francine Shapiro when she noticed that moving her eyes from side to side seemed to reduce the intensity of distressing thoughts.
👀 Engages Both Sides of the Brain – EMDR uses bilateral stimulation (eye movements, tapping, or tones) to activate both hemispheres of the brain, helping process stuck memories.
👮♂️Used by the Military & First Responders – EMDR is widely used to help veterans, police officers, firefighters, and other first responders process traumatic experiences.
🌍 Used Worldwide – EMDR is recognized by major organizations like the World Health Organization (WHO) and the American Psychological Association (APA) as an effective treatment for trauma.
🧠 Your Brain Does the Healing – EMDR taps into your brain’s natural ability to heal itself, much like how your body heals a physical wound.
⏳Can Lead to Rapid Results – Some people experience significant relief in just a few sessions, making EMDR an efficient therapy for trauma and emotional distress.
✏️ No Homework Required – Unlike some therapy approaches, EMDR doesn’t require journaling or extensive assignments between sessions—your brain does the work during the sessions and continues the healing between sessions.
⚽ Can Improve Performance & Creativity – Many athletes, performers, and professionals use EMDR to overcome mental blocks, reduce anxiety, and enhance their performance.
If you have any questions about EMDR—how it works, what to expect, or whether it’s right for you—I’d be happy to help! Whether you're wondering about its effectiveness for trauma, how it differs from traditional talk therapy, or what sessions look like, I’m here to provide clarity and support. Healing is personal, and finding the right approach matters. Let’s explore whether EMDR could be a good fit for your journey. Reach out today, and I’ll gladly answer any questions you have!
Laura S. Brown, Ph.D.
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